Tag: Neil the Nissan

  • Thirteen Things I’m Thankful For

    If I tried to list everything I’m thankful for, it would end up being either really abstract (silliness, grace, love, freedom, etc.) or downright molecular (oxygen, water, carbon…)

    (Also, infinitely long… moreso because I’m a super-analytical, detail-oriented perfectionist, than actually because I’m grateful for that many things. I mean, I am, but what would really kill the list is the precision and thoroughness with which I would list them, and 2 feet of text later I’d give up, having only described the things that I’m thankful for that are presently on my desk.)

    I’m obviously incredibly grateful for the big things like my home and my job and those abstract and molecular things, and most of all, family and friends and puppy obviously top the list, so we’ll skip them for this list, and I’ll attempt to avoid listing components and prerequisites and broad categories, SO…

    Thirteen specific, tangible(ish), pretty random things that I am particularly grateful for at this relatively arbitrary moment in time! Alternately titled,

    13 Assorted Nouns Lauren Gets Inordinately Excited About.

    (in no particular order, just as they come to mind. ):

    1. My dog, Rocky.
      Ok, I just said I wasn’t going to list the dog, (twice, since he is also family… or maybe thrice since he’s also my friend!) but he is fuzzy and cuddly and delightful (and in snuggle range as I start typing this post), so apparently he’s getting included anyway. He’s a Bichon Frise, almost 12 in human years, and an impressively good communicator for someone who neither speaks words nor writes. Sometimes he’s a bad dog, but mostly he’s just a big fluffy pile of love and adorableness.
       
    2. Apple Soy Chai Lattes
      A couple months ago, I discovered Burlap & Bean offered apple among the many flavor syrups available to add to your coffee or whatever beverage. I thought, “Hmm, I bet that would be good in chai…” and holy hello was I right! It instantly became my “usual”! It is also amusing to see the baristas react, as I seem to be the first to think of it (there, at least), and they’re all intrigued, always saying, “Ooh, I’ll have to try that!” and today one guy told me he finally did, and confirmed it is absurdly delicious. Also, the one girl calls me “Apple Soy Chai Girl,” which makes me smile!
       
    3. Crochet/Knitting
      I sometimes say my attention span is as long as my yarn. My Grandma taught me the basics of crochet when I was like, 6 or so, and I figured out how to knit a few years later, so I’ve been making things with yarn long enough that it’s second nature– the simple repetitive motion only occasionally requires conscious thought, but keeps my hands busy while I pay attention to other things (teachers/presenters/tv/conversations/etc.). It provides a point of focus — a sort of tether to reality, keeping my scatterbrain from wandering — and you get a scarf or something out of it! And I’m the sort who mostly makes up my own patterns, so the figuring out a project/design is a fun, half art/half math puzzle to solve!
       
    4. Graph Paper
      For the aformentioned design puzzling, not just for crochet projects, but for sketching out layouts and all sorts of ideas!
       
    5. Comfortable Shoes
      Almost every day, I wear either my tan sneakery shoes or my black sandals. The sneakers are barely sneakers… soft lightweight almost sock-like sort-of running shoes with elastic instead of laces. The sandals are near-magical slides which I’ve worn pretty much nonstop when its warm-ish for the last 5 years, including a month in Taiwan where we walked way too much, and they’re holding up really well, and perfectly molded to my feet. Every time I wear any other shoes, I’m reminded of how awesome these two pairs are! They feel less like shoes, and more like hugs for my feet.
       
    6. NASAtweetups and such
      NASAtweetups, CSAtweetups, NASAsocials, rogue tweetups, really any gathering of “people from the internet” is bound to be a good time! I’ve written about this before, but I’m especially and specifically grateful to NASA and CSA (and other space agencies doing the same that I haven’t been to yet) for hosting us spacetweeps, educating and entertaining us — and showing us how amazing both the universe, and mankind’s endeavors to explore it, are. And generally making field trips for grown-ups a thing that exists.
       
    7. Electric/Heated Blankets
      The heat in our house doesn’t really reach upstairs (which is confusing, since I was pretty sure heat rises), so a blanket that actually produces heat is very welcome in my bed!
       
    8. Netflix/Hulu/TV on the internet in general
      I love tv, but I can never remember to watch current shows when they air, so I’d miss at least half the episodes if that was the only option. And since I’m all about character development and the long-term plot, I can’t stand seeing episodes out of order or missing them, so I’d pretty much just never watch anything good until it came out on DVD. And since I’m broke, that wouldn’t happen either. So Hulu and individual networks’ steaming video (and occasionally filling in the gaps with sources of questionable legality) are miraculous for keeping up with current shows. And if it’s too old for Hulu, it’s probably on Netflix or will be soon. I can mad marathon all previous seasons of as many shows as I want (and movies too) for a very reasonable $8 a month (which I have now roped my parents into paying, since the whole family started using my account)!
       
    9. My Car, Neil
      I like him. He is cute and shiny and blue and has a cd player and everything works! But I’ve already rambled on about that a bit too… it’s nice having a car that isn’t perpetually breaking!
       
    10. Tote Bags
      There is something to be said for purses and computer bags and cases for various things — consistency and organization and such. But I’m a big fan of simple tote bags. Like one giant-ass pocket you throw everything you need in, sling it over your shoulder, and off you go! Any shape/size/color/design you want, they probably make that tote bag, and if not, you can get one printed! And they’re cheap, so you can keep a bunch handy! And if you spill something on it, or something leaks inside it, just throw it in the wash and dump your stuff in another one. Plus, unlike more structured bags, which stay pretty much the same size whether they’re empty or full, a simple cloth tote bag only takes up as much space as the stuff inside it! *magic*
       
    11. Connectivity
      Ok, this is getting dangerously close to that abstract territory I said I’d avoid, but it’s simultaneously astounding and easy to take for granted, so it’s worth a mention. It’s tangible in smartphones and tablets, anyway. So many places have WiFi, and cellular data networks are finally getting fast enough to be worth using, so the internet is accessible pretty much anywhere, any time! And with technical connectivity comes human connectedness. A certain amount of paradoxical disconnectedness too, but things like Twitter and Skype and Wikipedia and Coursera and Trello and a thousand other sites and apps connect me with people and books and knowledge and tools in every area of human experience and the world geographically! Clearly, I’m a nerd about these sorts of things (and all the things!) but it makes me happy!
       
    12. Ukulele!
      I got a cheap but decently nice uke off eBay a thousand years or so ago, and mostly it has sat on a shelf collecting dust, but lately I’ve been playing it more, and while I still suck, it’s fun! Small enough for my stupidtiny hands to handle easily, and only four strings to keep track of, so I’m having better luck learning than on guitar. I wrote a song for/inspired by Rachel’s sweet kiddo, Gwenny, about a sassy pterodactyl, and managed to figure out a suitable chord progression for it! And theoretically, some day, I will know more than 4 chords! It’s fun!
       
    13. Cup-a-noodles
      Yes, instant ramen in a styrofoam cup. For 50 cents or less. I am poor and like hot food at work. Don’t judge me. Mmm salty chicken-flavor noodles of cheapness.
       
  • The Return of Marian Call

    Last summer I finally got to see Marian Call live. Twice! And thus confirmed she is a super-awesome musician and person. I grabbed her two existing albums then, and the new double-disc set soon after it came out, and enjoyed them periodically, but I didn’t have a CD player in my car, and don’t really listen to music much anywhere else, so the only time I’d really listen to anything but the radio is when I’d hook up my slightly spastic phone to both the charger (since it liked to spontaneously turn itself off and refused to turn back on unless it was plugged in, even if fully charged) and the cassette adapter, which I usually only bother to do for longer drives. So Marian Call = roadtrip music.

    But now that my new car has an actual CD player, I busted out the Something Fierce CDs to try it out… and just kept listening to them… flipping back and forth between “Vol. I: Good Luck with That” and “Vol. II: from Alaska”, interrupted occasionally only by NPR, for weeks. And my commute is 45-50 minutes each way, so that’s not just a few times through. I know pretty much every word on both discs – and there are a lot of words!

    You’d think I’d get sick of it after a while, but I don’t! I get tired of certain songs at times, but there’s enough variety that I can just skip a track or two and I’ll find something that feels fresh and better suited to my mood. And some other time, that song I was tired of will be exactly what I want to listen to! And a few songs, I could (and sometimes do) just listen to on repeat over and over again, because they’re just perfect. I won’t color your perceptions by saying which, or even attempting to describe it. Just listen for yourself. →

    Okay, that’s a cop-out. I tried to think of how to describe her music and just can’t. (Without resorting to some rather odd similes, anyway, typically involving food.) Some of it’s silly; some of it’s sad; some of it is sassy. Some is hopeful, some soulful, all lovely, occasionally absolutely beautifully baffling. Overall, it’s kind of like she’s singing a book… biography by anthology, maybe… of herself, but not just herself… You can see now why I wanted to not attempt to describe it! It’s just damn good music, okay?

    (I eventually did throw another CD into the mix – her earlier release, Vanilla, plus more NPR. One of these days I’ll find the rest of my CDs…)

    Anyways, she’s out touring again, and stopped in PA last Saturday to play at one of my favorite local places, MilkBoy Coffee in Ardmore!

    Allison Hutchinson opening
    Marian accompanied by Scott Barkan on guitar
    Pardon the grainy phone pics… the battery on my good camera was lower than I thought!

    Vahe Sarkissian and a couple friends wrapping up the night

    It was a great show! Allison and Vahe (and friends) are also very talented, so a lovely evening of great music overall! And my Dad came out and enjoyed it, too! And I even made a friend, since we happened to park next to each other and be heading to the same place, and he was wearing a Captain Hammer tshirt. 🙂 So, lots of win all around!

    I had offered our couches for Marian and Scott to have somewhere to sleep in PA, since as of a few days prior, they did not. So they followed me home, and we hung out a very little bit before everybody was too exhausted to be social, and my sneaky little dog peed on one of her bags and had to be banished (again, sorry Marian!), and then there was sleep. I actually ended up having really crappy and minimal sleep, but they apparently slept quite well, which is good, because after a bit of breakfast, they were back on the road! (Thanks for stopping by!)

    They’ve got shows coming up around New England and southeast Canada over the next week, and then they’re off to Europe! So, if you’re in one of those places, be sure to check out MarianCall.com and find one to go to! (And if you’re not in one of those places, check back periodically, she’ll probably come near you sometime soon! She does that.) And wherever you are, November 13th is the global (re)release of Something Fierce, so there’s going to be a party… on the internet! Prepare for awesomeness.

  • So, I bought a car…?!

    Ok, it was a bit ago now.

    It’s weird, because family doesn’t buy new cars.

    We acquire a vehicle every few years, but they’re never new. Literally, the last (and I believe only) actually-new vehicle my parents bought was the minivan they got when I was 18 months old, and we kept it until I was 10 or so. Usually we buy them cheaply off my grandparents when they buy new cars, or from friends, or the interwebs, very occasionally from a used car lot.

    And of the four cars I’ve driven regularly for various periods of time in the 8 years I’ve been driving, none of them have ever:

    • been officially/legally mine.
    • been mine before anyone else in my family.
    • been newer than 10 years old when I started driving them.
    • had less than about 90,000 miles on them.
    • had a CD player, except the one that was mostly my younger sister’s, but we shared it the year we were at college together. (And one didn’t even have a tape player. Or a ceiling, for that matter. Just bare metal!)
    • been driven by anyone else in the family (and usually not anybody else, period) after me

    I drive them until the cost of keeping them going is more than their worth, at which point they were, respectively: relegated to a junkyard, sold for $250, donated, or – in the case of the last one – still sitting useless in front of our house.

    So imagine my shock when, upon the last one’s abrupt demise (at a stoplight on my way to church!) the parents actually encouraged me to buy a legitimately new car! We looked around for used ones, briefly, but the parents decided they were done passing their old cars onto me, and we weren’t finding anything not-completely-horrendous-but-just-crappy-enough for me to afford with the few thousand I could scrounge up, and the “nicer” used cars we were seeing weren’t nice enough to justify borrowing the difference.

    So when my cousin, who recently started working for a Nissan dealership, mentioned that a brand new Versa was only a couple thousand more than those disappointing “nicer” used cars, I was intrigued. If I was going to have to have car payments just to get anything that wouldn’t die on me within two years again, the thought of having slightly higher car payments for something new and reliable, with a warranty – that nobody else had ever owned – sounded pretty darn good.

    The more I thought about it, the better it sounded, and the parents (to my great surprise) agreed, so Daddy took me up to have my cousin show me what he had in mind. I thought, if I got anything new, it would be the super-basic Versa sedan, but when we got there, my cousin revealed that the cooler-looking hatchback version, normally $3k more, had a special deal going right then, bringing it down to a negligible difference! So we took one out for a test drive, and I was pretty much convinced!

    We looked at the sedan and the different colors and packages they had handy, but it was pretty obvious that I was destined to leave with the bright royal blue hatchback, and it even has a remote to lock/unlock the doors, a Bluetooth phone hookup thinger, and an iPod connection (might have to buy an iPod now). So fancy! Ok, in the grand scheme of modern cars, not really. But for me, very fancy!

    We went inside crunched some numbers, determined I’d only be mostly broke for the next few years, and signed my name a few thousand times. And then I left in a car that was mine. And terribly spiffy. And had single-digit mileage! (Of course it was up to 76mi. by the time I got home, since my cousin lives an hour away!) All in all, a slightly bizarre/surreal experience, but delightful!

    And after a month and about 1000 miles of commuting later, I’m pretty thrilled with this lovely little car and have named him Neil. I initially wanted to name it Steve (the previous ones had all had guy names: Juan Excalibur and Loredo (both named by friends… don’t ask) and Charlie), but it didn’t quite feel right, so I thought maybe this one was a she-car.

    But then another spacetweep announced she was naming her own new car Neil, in memory of Neil Armstrong, who just passed away, and it seemed kind of perfect. I was hesitant to copy the name, but she assured me she didn’t mind, and the longer I drove the car, the more it seemed to fit!

    After all, I don’t know anyone named Neil who isn’t awesome! Neil Armstrong, Neil deGrasse Tyson, Neil Patrick Harris, Neil Grayston, Neil Gaiman, my neighbor Neil McCrossen… and now, my car. 🙂